5 Simple Ways To Tell If You’re In A Healthy Relationship
Psst. Just because you like Jerry Springer and he likes Star Trek doesn’t mean you two can’t have a fun-filled, long-lasting, healthy relationship.
Relationships are based on more than superficial likes and dislikes.
A healthy relationship is founded on deeper themes, such as a shared worldview, common core values, and a thriving friendship.
While not an all-encompassing list, below are 5 essential ingredients that make a healthy relationship, at least in my opinion.
So, are you in a healthy relationship?
#1 – You Say What’s On Your Mind
Whether you’re reading an insightful article or you had a bad day at work, you can talk openly with your significant other.
Not only that, but you can talk about anything. You can talk about innocent topics like what to have for dinner or you can broach more controversial topics like religion, politics, sex, and whatever else you desire without fear your partner will judge or criticize you.
If you’re afraid to say how you feel because of how you think your partner will react, maybe the person you’re with isn’t the right one for you.
#2 – You Have Disagreements
Being in a healthy relationship and speaking your mind means you’ll probably have arguments. And that’s a good thing.
Just to be clear, I’m not talking about physically hitting someone or emotionally-abusing them.
Instead I’m referring to a healthy discussion where one person states his or her opinion and supporting facts. The other person then gives proper consideration and tries to see things from other person’s point of view and vice versa.
If you haven’t had any disagreements, either your relationship is still shiny and new or you’re holding something back that will erupt later.
#3 – You Feel Safe
The world is a stressful place. From getting stuck in traffic to dealing with your relatives, sometimes you feel insecure and exposed. However when you’re with your significant other (or even thinking about him or her), all that uncertainty melts away.
You’ve found your happy place and it’s with your partner. Whether it’s a reassuring smile, an open mind, or a passionate embrace, he or she has a knack for making you feel better about everything and the world is a pile of puppies again.
#4 – You’re Happy
Your job might not be ideal. Your parents might drive you bonkers. But you’re still happy because you have this wonderful significant other who brightens your day. You know he or she cares deeply for you and always puts you ahead of himself or herself and that makes you smile from ear to ear.
On the flip side, if you’re constantly miserable, dig deeper and investigate the cause. If your significant other isn’t lifting you up, he or she might be bringing you down. And that’s not good.
#5 – You Genuinely Like Your Partner
You’re not needy, but you really like your significant other. Whether it’s their sense of humor, their big beautiful brain, or something else, you don’t like being away from them and you can’t wait to see them again.
If you don’t like your significant other or you don’t feel strongly one way or the other, you might need to find someone else who’s more up your alley.
What else do you think makes up a healthy relationship?
If you feel comfortable, tell me in the comments below.
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